Sunday, April 22, 2012

Visible Monday: The Morning After

This Gap dress that I thrifted several months ago has hung in my closet waiting for weather that felt right for it.  But when I finally put the look together last Wednesday afternoon, I realized that the waist hit too high.  After I'd snapped the photos of this first iteration, I realized that there wasn't enough color in the look, though I loved the silk scarf which is covered with the wildest mushrooms, the kind that one begins to find if you traipse around in the woods this time of year.  And I had added a timid dab of oudh behind both knees.  It has a scent like the rich smell of earth, just before a rain.

I wasn't very happy with the first iteration of the look--to neutral and my students would think the scarf was fussy.  The second iteration with the red belt on the outside of the jacket was better.  All of a sudden, I was having one of those times when you can't make up your mind and the piles of possibilities grow larger as your time shortens.  The red sandals are Clarke's.  Ultimately I added a pleated J. Jill sweater and a pair of purple suede Mary Jane heels.  All items have been thrifted.

This look was just fine for what was on the agenda that evening.  Students were to have the second draft of a paper on the changing meaning of the word "American" over the various periods of American literature we've been studying--realism, modernism, and post-modernism.  In the first draft, they try to Google their way through this paper and I get a lot of Mom and apple pie type stuff.  Students have to be coaxed to use their writing to discover what they think.

The second half of class included presentations done by the students on Adrienne Rich, Sylvia Plath, Don DeLillo, John Updike, and Tim O'Brien.  Oh, and Raymond Carver, one of my favorite short story writers.

I want to thank all of my guests who attended the rollicking 60 hour pajama party this weekend.  We had guests from all over the planet--the Arctic Circle, and Panama, and the United Kingdom, Australia, Belgium, Denmark, and several American states.   We even had a guy show up.

The food was fabulous, though I'm afraid a couple of us over-indulged in Curtise' gin bottle and Melanie's martinis.  
 
Several sent their regrets--enough to make me wonder if this shouldn't become an annual event at Rags.  Any thoughts?

I am particularly indebted to Patti at Not Dead Yet Style for the hand-holding she did in the planning stages of the pajama party.  I was very very worried that the linking device she uses every Monday for Visible Monday would not work at Rags.  This post is a part of her weekly roundup of bloggers.  Visit us there.

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  1. What a lovely and useful dress to have. Y'know what; I really like the first look with the mushroom scarf giving just the right amount of interest. I also love the third look with the purple cardigan. A great find!
    I would have been guilty of living it up with the martinis, I'm afraid... ;)

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    1. Carolyn--I suspect the first outfit was better in person. It has a lot of textural interest and the sandals brought out a touch of red. But this gettin' old and looking washed out is no fun.

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  2. The looks with the belt are wonderful. I agree that a bit of colour is better for you and you did really well, to come up with some great outfits!

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    1. Sylvia--I probably should have snapped my photos outdoors for better color. I need makeup to take the indoor photos!

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  3. Very elegant! I love wild mushrooms - as much in print as in risotto! What a wonderful description of the oudh scent and a forest walk to hunt for mushrooms - you've come over all autumnal. Love your aubergine sweater.

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    1. Veshoevius--for years I have tried to capture that smell in a poem...and it has been elusive. Now that I have the oudh, I know why.

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  4. Cool scarf with the mushrooms! So, are you happy with the scent of oudh? (That "timid" in your description sort of confuses me.)

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    1. Beryl--I'm still experimenting with the oudh. It is very strong when you first apply it. Takes 30 minutes or so for it to calm down on the skin and then I do like it. I purchased 2 different distillations of the essential oil. I have only sampled one, trying it on various parts of my body. Finally tried some on my wrist last week. I do like it, I'm just figuring out the best way to wear it.

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  5. There's one thing I'd like to have a man whisper to me: "Oh, darling, your knee-backs smell of oudh." Seriously, oudh is the kind of scent I would looove to dab on my knee-backs or elbows or earlobes!

    Thanks for the rousing good time at the pyjama party. Miz Bagg got her come-uppance - the bits of caviar stuck in her hair caused her to be mauled by a herd(?) of hungry walri!

    You look gorgeous. I really like the red belt idea and the last one with the purple blazer and shoes. Superb.

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    1. Melanie--DH agrees that he likes the scent and I won't tell all the things he likes to smell (he's a goat!). Oh, the image of Miz Bagg with caviar in her hair is disconcerting! I have a colleague who teaches history who unfortunately has the same name as your Miz Bagg!

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  6. Yes...do the party again..so I can come next time. Sorry that Fiesta and end of school has me pulling my hair out!! The scarf is so beautiful, but I personally like the pop of red!! Your class sounds excellent.

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    1. Pam--I'm realizing that timing is very important to the pajama party. When I first planned it, my only thought was to have something fun...in the days after our taxes were due. I'll do it in May next year...so we can avoid Fiesta.

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  7. I love your outfit (GREAT dress) and yes PLEASE do the PJ party again! I missed out this time because... well I just plain forgot, but I really want to come next time.

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    1. Meghan--Well, if Rags is still going next year at this time, I will have another pajama party.

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  8. I like the red belt and jacket look the most, I think, and the purple is so stylish too. I do think such a neutral dress needs some colour - but then I would, wouldn't I?!
    I'll definitely come back next year if you make the PJ party an annual event, Terri, thanks so much for hosting it! Thanks to the tea and toast you supplied, my post-gin hangover was manageable!
    PS. Oudh on the back of your knees; there's a poem in there somewhere. Isn't there an Anne Sexton poem about being kissed on the back of the knee? And you are supposed to dab your perfume where you want to be kissed! xxxx

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    1. Curtise--I've never had an entire dress quite this neutral...so it is an experiment. I'm going to have to track down that Anne Sexton poem...she is one of the poets we've taken a look at in American Literature.

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  9. Love the purple and the red versions - I think the dress is a wonderful background for those strong colors. Great shoes too!

    I vote YES for another PJ party; it was great fun to participate.

    I am very thankful/jealous that Google wasn't around when I was in college. It would be so tempting to cut and paste. And your students read Adrienne Rich! Fantastic.

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    1. Patti--It's felt slightly weird to persist in strong colors when everyone else seems to be experimenting with pastels. I begin to understand why they recommend color for women of a certain age.

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  10. Great dress to play with!
    I do love the second look with the red belt...I also love the purple sweater w/belt...Ah, they're both so classy!! Love it!
    Yes to the annual PJ party!

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    1. Jeannie--sounds like there is consensus to do the pajama party again. I was content with the purple sweater and it was the first wear for the suede shoes which I had thrifted months ago and had intended to wear all winter. Not a single one of my winter outfits made use of them!

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  11. The belted versions are the best, imo. I especially like the last one, the color of the sweater looks great on you.
    You really do have a large wardrobe to select clothes from : ).

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    1. Mette--the sweater is really wonderful--it has small pleats in it that lends it to being belted this way. I just keep cycling clothing through my closet.

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  12. The third outfit is my favorite, I love the colour of the cardigan and shoes! Somehow you'll have to find a way to wear the scarf as well, it's too lovely not to be used.

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    1. kaffesoester--it's my favorite too. I'll keep playing with the scarf. I think I need to review DejaPseu's scarf videos.

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  13. Please do have the PJ party again. I think it is a wonderful idea. I like all your iterations of the outfit, but I do think I like the last one best. I think it is the contrast in the light and dark.

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    1. Debbie--Yep, I agree of all the combos that the third is the best. I have a student in this Wednesday class who told me several weeks ago that I dress so "cute" that it is sometimes a distraction?? That was a first, or perhaps she was just looking for a good grade.

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  14. i love that you document where your mind takes you as you dress! i like all three looks, but i know where you're coming from! i love the scarf and the red belt!

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    1. Two Birds--thank you. I try to have outfits in mind for the three days I actually have to go to campus, but because I don't try things on in the thrifts, I can never be certain things will actually fit.

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  15. Terri thank you for adding me to to the virtual pj party :)
    AND I must say i like your GAP dress and loved your last choice with the purple. You know I think that on to that purple cardi you could ADD the mushroom scarf...

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    1. Lorena--I wish there had been a way to leave it open, so you could upload your Hello Kitty photo. It pleased me. I like the Gap dress too, it's just that my waist is several inches lower than the dress thought it should be!

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  16. I vote for the purple! Glad the party was a huge success! I'll be there next time for sure!!

    Love, Jean

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    1. Jean--yeah! I think I only gave about three weeks notice for this event. I think the lesson is that I need to give about a month's notice to give people the time to get their photos snapped.

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  17. The earlier iterations might well work on a person with different colouring, but you definitely look healthier with the purple jacket. Reminds me of why grey hair might not be wonderful on everyone - just too washed out. Really sorry I didn't make it to your PJ party. I was never likely to show up in pajamas but did have a definite idea for brunch menu. Just overwhelmed with things to catch up on after loooong holiday. By all means have annually - I might even make the next one. Perhaps announcing as long as a month in advance would help some folks plan their posting schedule a bit better?

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    1. Shelley--you are so tactful! I snapped a couple photos of the back of my head this weekend, thinking I might do a post on French Braids. I was shocked to see how grey my braid has become...so a bit of color is definitely on my mind. Do you color your hair?

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  18. I really like the belted looks, especially the first one. What a lovely jacket that is, too -- with the red belt nudging it over to slightly more casual. Love it. And yes, I would love to participate in the PJ party if you decide to do it again.

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    1. Anne/Frump Factor--sounds like there will be a repeat of the pajama party one day! I'm going to keep playing with the jacket over the summer--it is like no other jacket in the closet.

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  19. An annual event sounds like a smashing idea! And I love that purple!

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    1. Joni--Welcome to Rags! And yes, I hope you'll come to next year's pajama party.

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  20. I'm sorry I missed out on the PJ party! I'll have to join the next one if you make it an annual thing. My mind has been in baby shower plan mode, I can't seem to think about anything else (other than work). I really like the scarf in the first look--I don't think it's fussy! (Oh, and I can't tell you how much I'd love to be a student in your class. It sounds right up my alley!)

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    1. Shea--I know that you have been in baby shower mode! Well, since you're in the KC area, the class is offered on Wednesday evenings on the Lee's Summit campus. One student in the class is older than I am.

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  21. The purple sweater and shoes did the trick. Very classy! I can relate to feeling overwhelmed with choices as the time becomes short. I could solve that problem by reducing my inventory. Hope to make your pajama party next year.

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    1. Judith--Yes, I liked the purple. I don't usually have this "deadline" problem. I don't think the problem is so much inventory...I think the main problem is that the dress doesn't fit as well as it might. For your sake, I may push the date of the pajama party to May next year.

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  22. I was just an onlooker with the PJ party but I think it should definitely be a tradition! I think it sounds like your class would be so fun to take, I wish you were my teacher!

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    1. Meri--hm, this is one of the few classes that I have never developed for the online environment. I think it works better face to face, as it allows a visual diversity to the class.

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  23. I really like the dress with the colorful cardigan!

    Thanks for the tip about making notes about places for photos, such a great idea!

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    1. Bri--my "grace coddington" notes are all in my head, but I live in a city with many wonderful spots for snapping photos and I should really create a little notebook--categorized by color.

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  24. I think my favorite is the second look. My eye is drawn to the rich belt. However, I think you showed the great versatility of a remixable dress.

    I'd happily link up to a pajama party if it were annual. I caught the posting on the last little bit. So fingers crossed for next year.

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    1. MeganMae--It is looking like I may do this again, but in May next year.

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  25. I like the last outfit the most - especially how the shoes and sweater match. Even though the purple is a strong colour, the whole outfit looks softer.

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    1. Narda--I would typically pair purple with a shade of grey, which is why I originally bought the shoes...and then didn't wear them all winter!

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  26. It is such a perfect attire.I love it better with the red belt.
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    1. Sacramento--I should have tried a version with the red belt and the scarf! I see that NOW.

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  27. Sorry I missed the pyjama party -- I had every intention of joining the fun, but I had to admit, finally, that there were too many other things I had to get done.
    That writing project sounds like a great way to pull together the term's work for students, helping them put all they've learned into a cohesive narrative. I always think that's such a powerful moment, when they realize what they now "own" in terms of knowledge gained. . .

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    1. Mater--In recent years, I've noticed that my students don't actually do very well in abstracting from what they've read. This forces them to do that. It is a paper they work on all semester long. I agree about leading them to "own" their knowledge.

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  28. Terri my dear, would you like to show that scarf in more detail and join Adrienne and me for the favorite silk scarf post on May 1? I worry when you say you think your students would find the scarf fussy. Oh no! I'm still thinking about the Hermes scarf that you like and hoping it finds its way into your closet some time this year. You can send me or Adrienne a picture of you in the scarf. We'd love to have you join us! XO, Jill

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    1. Jill--while the scarf IS silk, I don't know that the maker is especially legendary, though I do like the print. And, yes, I will take part in your scarf event. When is the deadline to have the photos to you?

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  29. I still regret missing the pajama party...yes, please do it again!

    Your outfit's progression is so fun to watch...I envy your students...your class sounds divine!

    To answer your very kind Airstream questions and interest, I posted more photos on today's post. What an exciting idea to travel in one in your upcoming retirement! We bought ours new (not the best financial decision...but I was led my heart and love for this...ONE). Most of the interior came as is...I changed the cushions, added pillows and the bedding in the bedroom...as well as styling the outside. This model came with all the modern amenities...microwave, 2 flat screen TV's, surround sound ect. It is always such a pleasure to take it "glamping".

    Thank you for your interest Terri! If you ever have any more questions, I am more than eager to answer!

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    1. Tamera--Oh, I'm coming to visit your post pronto! I'm so curious about these. I am forever pointing out ones to my husband that you know have been sitting unused for a while. He is a carpenter and I have visions of refurbishing one to our liking and then taking off to visit all my blogging friends!

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  30. Love the outfit: clean and elegant!

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    1. Oksana--Welcome to Rags! And thank you!

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  31. thanks for the party,so fun!!!!!!!
    hugs
    reva

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    1. Reva--You're most welcome! Everyone who attended certainly seemed to be in the spirit of things! And I have to try that shrimp recipe.

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  32. Yes, I think you should celebrate every year.
    I loved your pajama party.
    Your outfits are always so classy, my fave us the red belt and velvet mary janes.
    besios

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  33. The pyjama party looks like lots of fun - have another one so I can come! That's a beautiful scarf.

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  34. I covet your mushroom scarf! A scent that evokes the rich smell of earth is my kind of scent.

    As for coaxing students to use their writing to discover what they think, I guess I'll be learning about that as I just found out today that I got accepted into the MA in Composition program at SFSU! Thank you so much again Terri for your help with my application. xoxo

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    1. Susan--Thank you. I love the scent of the new oudh, though initially it took a bit of getting used to.

      I'm so pleased that got into the program. A good composition instructor can make a huge difference in a student's academic experience.

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  35. I kinda like your second outfit most although the scarf is a lovely one with nice colors.I know what you mean about having many choices and not being able to choose.

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    1. Angie--I suspect that I just wasn't giving the look a long enough time to let it evolve. I needed to get to work!

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  36. I must love fussy because I am really digging the first iteration with the scarf.

    A professor of mine used to say that good writing was good thinking, and the correlation is really true. I have noticed that students' prose really falls off when they are grappling ideas that they don't understand and haven't fully thought out.

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    1. Raquelita--this students have been thinking about this question all semester. It's dismaying when you get to the second draft about two thirds of the way through the semester and you discover that they still aren't thinking about it very deeply.

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  37. I agree with Raquelita - love the scarf. Maybe the presentation was 80's 'career woman,' but the print is wonderful!

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