Sunday, June 10, 2012

Visible Monday: Adventures in Marriage Edition

When I posted my Window Shopping Project post last Friday, I thought I had nothing more pressing than an eye appointment and laundry to do this weekend.  It's been two years since I've had an eye appointment and four years since I've purchased a new pair of specs.  My grandson and I walked the two blocks to the optometrist's office, the two of us dressed in contrasting blue and white.  C. was fascinated by all the gadgets in the doctor's office and tried to help me read the tiniest print at the bottom of the chart.  A half hour later I walked out having ordered a pair of tortoise shell glasses.

At home again, there was a message on the answering machine from a woman with my same name informing my husband that he'd placed the winning bid on an organ that had been up for auction that day.  Inwardly I groaned; the auction was halfway to Denver.  DH was off selling stuff at another auction and did not return home until 4 p.m.  When he called the auction house, we learned that the antique organ was sitting outside waiting for DH to pick it up.  We looked at each other and gulped; would it rain before we could get there to pick it up?

We set out at 6 p.m., having borrowed our son's trailer and began the jaunt, some 350 miles across the state.  We pulled into Hays, Kansas, at 11 and debated about getting a room.  DH decided to press on and we followed the directions to "B" road, startling owls and field mice at every turn.  I was reluctant, having visions of some landowner with a rifle meeting us at the gate.  DH assured me that the place was abandoned and continually tried to help me see the adventure this was.

Here's what we finally found at 12:15 in the morning.


There was a pleasant breeze stirring and the whispering of many trees, a full half moon, and an organ that worked but reeked of mice.  The organ was in two pieces and with some coaching I helped him lift the top half up and lowered it to the ground.  And then, back up again onto the trailer.  I have strong arms, but have never had to use them to hold a weight and raise or lower something at the same time.  We used a board then to scoot the bottom half onto the trailer.  We lashed the two pieces back to back on the trailer, then crept our way back out the gravel road we'd come, and drove another hour before we came to a town with a motel where we could stay.



Want to know what his winning bid was?  $25!!!  Want to know what it cost us to retrieve the d****d thing?  $200+.  But he is correct that this will be a memory right up there with the night we slept on scaffolding outside our bedroom window. 

I know that Kansas has a reputation of being flatter than a pancake.  If you're interested, this video will give you a glimpse of the actuality. 

This post is part of Patti's 50th Visible Monday!  It is also a part of a week long challenge at MeganMaeDaily's.  Monday's look was to be brights.  (the BRIGHT white cargos were thrifted at Goodwill by the pound, the sparkly blue blouse is by Chico's but also thrifted, and the saltwater sandals were  my first new purchase of the year. )

I'd love to hear a story or two about midadventures you might have shared with your partner!

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  1. What a story! This organ must be something special awfully special! An adventure to remember!
    You look great in classic blue & white. I actually think you look pretty darn sexy in your jeans & t-shirt!
    Thanks for reminding me of my overdue eye exam.

    Have a great week, Terri!

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    1. Jeannie--I don't know how special it might be...DH is the "organ expert" in our house and he's still learning. And thank you for making me feel better about my end of the day look.

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  2. The two of you sleeping on scaffolding right outside your own bedroom window in conjuring up hilarious images!! That organ is amazing!! What a great story too.
    When I take my son to the eye doctor he makes me laugh like crazy just acting silly. Fortunately the eye doc has a sense of humor or we may have been kicked out for making so much noise sometimes. ;)

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    1. Joni--I wore my infamous red nightgown...

      I'm glad to know that others take children with them to doctor's appointments. I worried what the doctor might think, but he took it in stride.

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  3. You were halfway to Denver and I was halfway to Lawrence! Maybe we passed in the middle. Snazzy organ, and what a bargain (respectively). I've been on the lookout for an accordion for The Rocket Scientist as a wedding present. Although how we'd get it to Germany remains to be seen.

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    1. Katie--I am certain that we passed at some point along I-70! What are you doing in Lawrence? I hope you stay there until the FC fire is under control. Could you purchase the accordion in Germany. DH shops for those two and many seem to have been made in that part of the world.

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  4. Such a wonderful story of an adventure to remember! You look great in blue and white! xo

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    1. Charlotta--Is is an adventure and thank you. I like this deep blue color.

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  5. Wait you slept on the scaffolding outside your window? Boy do I wanna hear that story!

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    1. Ki--Yep, the scaffolding was two stories tall and not very steady...

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  6. Quite the adventure. It looks like a very nice organ though and you're right that having this story is half the fun of owning it!

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    1. Sylvia--It was an adventure. I just hope that the organ actually plays one day. It is powered by the feet and a simple bellow.

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  7. $200 well spent on your mini-adventure I say!

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    1. Franca--Well, it was travel with a purpose...and just a bit of sight-seeing.

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  8. What an amazing story!
    totally worth getting that fab organ.
    I love you in blue and white colors amor.
    Besos

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    1. LaDama--thank you! The organ is somewhat gothic, isn't it?

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  9. Wow, quelle organ! Does it need a lot of restoration?

    I haven't had any misadventures with my (new) hubby when it comes to thrifting etc - hopefully that will come as there's a flea market in the city we're moving to!

    Love the white and blue, so crisp and clean. :)

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    1. GrungeQueen--Yes, it needs loads of restoration. He's got it dismantled now. My husband (16 years) found his first antique organ in a thrift store...and now the collection has grown to nine! Yikes!

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  10. Even at a price of $25... you had to have been elated that it didn't get rained on before you arrived to pick it up. Great story!!

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    1. Diane--Yes, we were relieved to have avoided the rain. It did rain the following night. And, then, we would have had wet mice nests.

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  11. Ah, these are the best times! We remember and retell them with joy. You look crisp and cool in your blue and whites!

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    1. Patti--It's true that time seems to bring out the humor in these things...

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    1. Young at Heart--yes, but tame by comparison to some of yours!

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  13. ROFLMBO!!! What an adventure!! Please tell me the picture of you in your challenge outfit was NOT taken at the hotel you stayed in!!!

    the four words my hubster fears the most???? "I've got an idea......"

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    1. Menopausal--The challenge outfit photo was taken at home before I had any idea this is how my Saturday would turn out! And, no, this is NOT the hotel! Hm, I'll have to try those 4 words on my husband. You're a hoot!

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  14. Indeed, marriage is an adventure! Even at $225, I think the organ was a good deal. :-)

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    1. StyleMentor--Well, we'll see how much he spends on its repair!

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  15. Your outfit looks perfect on you, so fresh.
    Quite an adventure; you make quite a pair, you two ; ).
    There are so many crazy stories in our 38 years long marriage, that I can´t pick just one, lol.
    I could not see your video (;

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    1. Mette--Yes, we are a pair--an eccentric pair. You should share at least one as a blog post, with your husband's permission of course. I've repaired the video link.

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  16. hee hee hee. Well you started out looking pretty snappy in your crisp white and bright blues. But I really like your expression later on in the all blue outfit by the screen door! That's a great set-up for a series: adventure stories and the outfits worn with them!

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    1. Pao--I'm glad that someone appreciates the before and after photos! Most of my adventure outfits are NOT styleworthy! Being married to DH has taught me to be very practical most of the time.

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  17. Some of the worst situations make for the best memories!
    Do you like your saltwater sandals? I bought some bright yellow ones last year, but they aren't very comfortable. Maybe I need to get them wet! They are cute as a button and remind me of some sandals I had as a kid.

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    1. Debbi--I do like my sandals, but they are still being broken in and yes, we probably do need to get them wet. Don't be surprised if we end up in Wichita one day--there's a supplier of parts for antique organs there!

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  18. i love this story. what an adventure. i think it's crazy that they left it outside, but maybe even crazier that you two had such a time retrieving it. he's right...you will remember this one!

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    1. Yes, we were dumb-founded when we learned that it was left outside, but once we saw the size of the thing, I kind of understand why.

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  19. Quite the 'marriage adventrue' and you are an amazing story teller. Creating memories makes for a rich relationship, even with some 'inner groans.' Your blue and white looks crisp and casual, yet elegant.

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    1. Judith--the entire drive out there, I kept threatening to make a bid on a dress in Denver and then to see how he would feel if we drove there to retrieve it.

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  20. Nice story Terri - What an adventure again!


    Ariane x

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    1. Arianne--I'm ready to stay home for a while. We've done MUCH more travel in the past month than I anticipated.

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  21. I call that shade of white "optic white" because it certainly is bright. I love the shorts.

    And I love your story. What a trip! The organ is beautiful. I imagine the story of its retrieval will be just as enjoyable as the thing itself.

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    1. MeganMae--Maybe I'm thinking of the white as bright...because my white britches don't tend to stay that way for long. And, yes, we'll be telling this story for years.

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  22. What an adventure! And what an amazing find too.
    You look great in your crisp blue and white, and just look at how you work a pair of jeans (you know of my struggles in that area...)! xxxxx

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    1. Curtise--I'm tempted to send you a pair of men's jeans...that's what I'm wearing and I suspect that we are the SAME size.

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  23. My lord, what a saga - hope it is worth it! It is certainly very beautiful.

    Penny Dreadful Vintage

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    1. PennyDreadful--the thing still plays, but I imagine it will sound better once DH has fixed it up a bit.

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  24. what a story, but definitely one for the memory books. just reminds me of a road trip i took (with an ex) from colorado to vegas...we had just moved there, bought a brand new truck and drove to see my mom who was vacationing in vegas. the trip was mostly pleasant, but just the thought of being stuck in a car with someone that long...my gawd, could have been much worse!

    [oomph.]

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    1. oomph--that's quite a jaunt from Colorado to Vegas, across some desert country too! Road trips can take their toll on a body--after being confined and in one position for so long.

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  25. Oh my goodness, what an adventure! And that organ is beautiful, and I'm sure you'll always remember how you got it. This post is actually making me want to go on a roadtrip with my hubby.

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    1. Shea--DH and I actually enjoy road trips as they seem to prompt interesting conversations and shake up our daily routine.

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    1. Jane--It is a find, but actually we've been told that many people have these organs and they are practically given away at auctions. These are the instruments that people carried West with them back before the advent of electronic music. I've seen photos of pioneer families with all their worldly possessions. And, often, these instruments were the ONLY piece of furniture.

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  27. that does sound like a trip you wont soon forget, and probably will remember fondly for years to come.
    Chic on the Cheap

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    1. Lyddie--I think it will be a funny story a year from now.

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  28. Looks like a really beautiful organ, and that is definitely quite an adventure.

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    1. Ana--It will be a gorgeous piece once it is full restored. Our home, with all 9 organs in place, will look like the Addams Family!

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  29. Oh my goodness!! That's an adventure alright!

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    1. Jeanine--It was! I was very achy all day Monday...the result of the heavy lifting.

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  30. For better or for worse or for mouse infused organs.

    That's got to be worth at least two trips to the 1/2 store.

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    1. Rose--Ha, ha! Our vows did not touch on mouse infused organs! And, yes, I've been exacting my payback.

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  31. Wow. That's true love. I'm not sure what my adventure would be after that. I'll get back to you. BTW, I like your outfit!

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    1. Jean--It is true love. Joey has surely led you on some adventures...I remember a car show you attended.

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  32. its so ridiculously when you get a great price on something but then have a huge hassle or cost to get it or have it shipped! Oh well, at least you have it in the end!

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    1. Meri--My problem with the bargain is that he already has 8 antique organs and not a single one has been fully refurbished!

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  33. Ha! It must be true love, the things we do with/for the people we care about! The photos of you arriving at the organ at night reminded me of some Nancy Drew mystery.

    You look summery fresh in your outfit. I'm glad you didn't wear it on your road trip!! Yes, about that scaffold story...? I look forward to seeing your new specs.

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    1. Melanie--It is true love! Actually, I felt like a witch creeping around this place so late at night. And, you're right, the white would not have been white after loading up the organ. I may save the scaffold story for another day. We were two stories up.

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  34. You look so crisp in your blue and white.
    I'm glad my husband only collects shaving paraphernalia so I don't have to do any heavy lifting. :) It does make for a great story and adventure though!

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    1. Lisa--thank you. What an interesting thing to collect, shaving paraphernalia. DH tells a story of having his beard whacked off with a straight edge once.

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  35. That's so much like Jon, he'll find a fabulous bargain on ebay only to drive to the other side of the country to collect it. Mind you, despite the trip and the smell of mice the organ looks amazing. x

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    1. Vix--I'm glad that someone understands. My displeasure is pretty tongue-in-cheek. I'm a fairly dull person myself and DH gets me into all sorts of fun. This is probably the most elaborate cabinet work in his collection of 9 organs.

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  36. The organ looks amazing and it sounds like a great adventure. You look very crisp in the blue and white.

    I used to believe that thing about Kansas being flat, never having been there, until my brother got a position at Kansas State. Manhattan KS is quite hilly, though I have little experience of the rest of the state.

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    1. Mardel--It was definitely an adventure. Oh, if you have visited Manhattan, you've seen the hills. I've repaired the video setting so you can get a glimpse of those hills now.

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  37. I was going to watch it, but it says 'This video is private.' And well it should be, with a title like Adventures in Marriage.

    I can only think of similar stories associated with my first husband (imagine bidding on an auction load of pipettes, mortars and pestles? a collection of over 200 S& P shakers? We always had a houseload of junk). I have a feeling that there may be some adventures coming up in the motorhome as we try it out in Europe this summer. Let's just hope Bill's French is up to the job...

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    1. Shelley--I fixed the setting for the video so it is available now. It is "G" rated. At this point in time, this is the only thing DH is collecting and I think he has about maxed out his storage space. None of this is in our shared quarters.

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  38. BTW, could I mention 'hantavirus'? Please be careful around rodent infestations

    http://www.cdc.gov/hantavirus/!

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    1. Shelley--I did mention hantavirus to him. He's devised a plan to basically vacuum up as much of the mouse evidence as possible and to filter that into a large car-port that is properly ventilated.

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  39. Oh my, DH is going to have quite an adventure himself restoring that organ! I hope the smell of mice isn't a permanent feature. It sounds like you and DH are very good at making memories :).

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    1. Susan--This restoration work appeals to his word-working and problem solving abilities. It's kinda like steampunk mechanics. As for the smell, I felt like I smelled like a mouse nest for 24 hours after.

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  40. What a great story, I admire you for your willingness to help. You'll have to show us pictures of the restored organ.

    Like the blue and white in the first photo, blue and white is such a perfect summer combo.

    Darla

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    1. Darla--I'm a big fan of blue & white for summer, but have trouble keeping the white...bright. This is the 9th antique organ he's acquired since January and all of them are in various states of repair. This one has the most elaborate cabinet work.

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  41. That organ looks like it would've been quite beautiful in its heyday - and will again perhaps. Is that an empty house it was at? It almost looks like the set for a scary movie.

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    1. Narda--I can imagine that the organ was a farm wife's pride and joy. The entire farm WAS completely abandoned and it was slightly frightening.

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  42. LOL Seriously. Literally LingOL! That sounds like something I would do! It's a BEAUTIFUL organ and quite an adventure to be sure...HOWEVER, it's the mice that would really put a damper on things for me....they just creep me out! I remember as a young girl, my sister was reading the book The Rats and I read a page in it where it described a person getting eaten alive by rats!!! UGHHHHHH! Hugs Terri! ~Serene

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    1. Serene--the mice smell stayed with me for a long time after we were home. And while I like natural smells, mouse nests would not be one.

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  43. I once made my boyfriend sit through an hour long ceremony (put on for us - exclusively) at a Buddhist temple (room above a vegetarian restaurant) where we accepted the dao and learned secret things I've since forgotten.

    He was ready to pass up the invite but there was my big mouth saying "YES. OF COURSE WE WOULD LIKE TO." I was quietly laughing to myself when I realized he was being asked to kneel and recite various things in a different language until I realized that I was next. It took over an hour and they literally wheeled out a chalkboard to teach us about the dao after we went through the ceremony. I think I ended up donating $10 and they gave us a bunch of apples and bananas to take with us.

    Also I just want to note that I've "favorited" basically every entry of yours for the past month with the intention of leaving long comments but have yet to go back through and actually leave thoughtful comments but it's coming!

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    1. jesse.anne.o--Hm, buddhism is something we've yet to investigate, although my practice of Christianity has many buddhist aspects--even without the secret knowledge. Ah, the things we do with our partners!!

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  44. What a great adventure! I love things on the spur of the moment like that, altho hubby HATES anything that he has not planned, in fact "I didn't plan on it" is one of his favorite sayings. :-(
    It's fun to spend time together and make memories.

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    1. Linda--In our household, hubby is the spontaneous one and though I grouse about it, it does lead to some interesting events.

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  45. Yes, it will indeed become a great story tied to the organ. AND just for the record, this is something I would do :)

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  46. It is a nice story. What is the use of scaffolding outside in your window?

    Regards,
    Amanda
    all about me atRUX

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