Tuesday, August 28, 2012

On Shopping for a Mannequin~A guest post

One evening in recent weeks, I naively typed the word mannequin into search boxes at Amazon and eBay.  I wanted something to display my merchandise, but what I got was very eye-opening.  When one is 58, it is always interesting to discover items you never knew existed, such as rubber, bendable figures with wigs and breasts and other things.

Quickly, I revised my search terms--dress form.  And up came all sorts of vintage forms, as well as professional forms that basically look like a scaffold with bodies hanging from them.  While I searched and searched, refining what I actually want and need I recalled a memory my mother had shared with me.  And she agreed to write the following--

The summer of 1953 was one of the most memorable in my life.  I was preparing to be married in June to the love of my life who was in the army stationed at Ft. Leonard Wood, Missouri.  That allowed him to be home most weekends.  His father was away attending summer classes at Kansas State in Manhattan, KS.  This left lonely evenings for myself and future mother-in-law to spend together.

She was an incredible seamstress and I toyed with creating clothes for myself.  She was always available to help me with fitting and making alterations where necessary.  She suggested we order a kit to create a dress form of me.  And it proved to be the experience of a lifetime.

She ordered it from J.C. Penney's catalog as I remember.  It consisted of a sleeveless knit body suit, rolls of brown Kraft paper with dried mucilage on it and a detailed instruction sheet.  We spent several minutes reading what seemed to be a simple enough procedure.

I put on my bra (with underwires) and my rubber Playtex girdle.  Then I put on the knit body suit (no crotch).  That in itself provided our first fit of laughter.  We took the waist measurement, which was needed for a wooden disc cut to attach the form once it was ready to use.  The next step was to start attaching the Kraft paper that we tore into two inch strips and ran through warm water.  They were applied to my body suit.  Of course, Twila, my mother-in-law had to do this so I could maintain the proper posture.  This took most of one morning and then it had to dry on me so it could be cut up the middle of the back.

Getting it off my body created several fits of laughter.  At this stage it had to dry to a good solid foundation as we needed to apply the rest of the paper tape to it.  We decided to cut to the wooden disc to my shape and size, mount it to a broomstick mounted on a solid base to support my "form" before we did any more.  More than a week later we were ready to finish our project.  By the time we applied the rest of the paper, it was somewhat larger but we thought it was useful for measuring for hems at least.  After the paper was all applied and dried to perfection, we applied a coat of shellac.  Success!

The wedding had to be postponed twice because of cancelled leave; I lost weight and my suit from Rothchilds of Emporia, Ks, had to be alter twice before the wedding date.  Twila didn't want to do that alteration so I went back to Rothchilds to have it done professionally.

The first two years of marriage brought us our two daughters and my weight and measurement were never again the size of the dress form.  It became one of those items you don't want to part with because of the memories.  I have to be honest and say I don't know whatever became of it.

What my mother doesn't tell us is how the mother in law provided a coffee can for a potty break during the making of this dress form--more cause for laughter!  Have any of my readers ever attempted to make their own dress form?  Do you have items like this that embody such good memories?  And do you have any idea where I can purchase an inexpensive, size 8 form, on wheels?   And do you think my mother ought to start a blog?

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  1. Lol! Wow. I bet your mom would have a lot of great stories to share on a blog.

    I consider myself spoiled because my MIL has not one, but two dress forms that I can borrow. Her small one doesn't get down to as small as size as I am, but it is adjustable. I think her's came from Joann's to be honest, but I know you can order them online (amazon seems to have a lot) or check out thrift stores and flea markets.

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    1. Megan--I really need a dress form (or two) in which the size could be changed to accommodate various sizes. Most of them don't seem to come on wheels, which I need for selling purposes.

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  2. That story is amazing! I so want everyone to have to do this...what a great way to understand your own body shape.

    I have a gorgeous old mannequin that I found years ago after literally dreaming of one for years prior. It was in a very junky shop and they wanted $40 for it. Afraid that I might lose out, like in dreams where suddenly you find your hands empty, I ran off to a bank machine and ran back. I carried her under my arm for the 10 block walk home. The only problem is that she has an amazing figure and everything looks better on her...

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    1. DamnGressDress--the mannequin I currently own came from an antique/flea market. She's not particularly good for displaying eBay wares as I have to completely dismantle her for each outfit change. I would love to see a photo of you carrying yours for 10 blocks. I'll bet you got some second looks!

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    2. As long as it wasn't a K cup coffee can!!!!! Terri's Mom

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  3. haha! Yes, I think your mother ought to start her own blog. Thanks for the great story and a tip for a great use for coffee cans. ;)

    I've searched in the past for a dress form too. The only ones I could come up with were the ones on Ebay for around 100.00. I once saw a few in craig's list from stores who were not using them anymore. Maybe that's an idea of where to look next. Good luck!

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    1. Joni--In many ways my mother has a better sense of humor than I do. Craigslist may be an excellent idea--I'd rather SEE it before I buy.

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  4. haha, what a great story! i don't even know what this form is exactly. i can see the confusion about the mannequin :) i will admit i too have never been the same (body-wise OR life-wise) after having the kiddos. and BTW, the girls were thrilled to see Bucket upon his return from Seattle, more so than mommy!

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    1. Claire--I am smaller breasted after having babies and more scarred in the middle.

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  5. What a story! Your mum should definitely start a blog! I am inheriting a vintage wooden mannequin from a shop that went into liquidation - no head and no arms. Just a torso. Looks much nicer than the plastic ones. But God knows where I'm going to put it. Try looking for vintage ones? I've seen vintage cloth ones on ebay sometimes.

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    1. Veshoevius--A torso on a stand in basically what I need and that wooden one sounds love it. I could "keep" it for you. I've some some interesting "steampunk" type dress forms.

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  6. What a lovely story.
    This weekend as we watched the surfers in the sea my brother in law recalled the day he mad ehis own wet suit that he had to cut out fro rubber and glue together.
    And yes, your mother should start a blog.

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    1. Jane--Oh, dear, making one's own wet suit would be an exercise in frustration. I'll bet that was a funny story.

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  7. Yes, of course your mum should start a blog! What a great story.
    I have a modern mannequin for Ebay purposes, just a polystyrene torso on a wooden stand. Cheap and does the job, but I would have loved an older one. They are available on Ebay but tend to be expensive, as are proper dressmaking forms. Hope you find what you are looking for. xxx

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    1. Curtise--how much does this mannequin weigh? And is it suitable for a variety of sizes? I keep thinking I need something on wheels so that it is easily moved for photography purposes.

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  8. hehe, what a fantastic story!! I have a mannequin/dress dummy, made to my size, but I ordered it didn't have to go through that! You might be interested to know though, that this almost-exact-same procedure is still carried out today by hundreds of home dressmakers like myself, and who write about it on their blogs just like this.

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    1. Carolyn--I am so envious of having one in just your size. (Does it have monogram on it too?). My mother's story came to mind because I actually did begin to think about MAKING one of my own, though I don't know that I have the patience to allow paper mache to dry.

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  9. Yes to retiring soon and writing your memoirs:))) (I just made that one up, but I think you should do it!). Yes to mama starting a blog. My dress-form "Peaches" is legless and she freaks out hubby who says she's emerging from the floor like some sort of horror movie character (which I think he should start writing) xoxoxoxo

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    1. Desiree--I have a resin store mannequin, but I need something like a dress form. Ours stands in the living room and does freak out strangers to our home. I love the name of yours...
      And the Phoenix should write a horror film. I have a colleague who does that.

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  10. Your Mum should definitely start blogging or at least write a guest post every so often! Such a fab read.
    I've two ex-shop mannequins (male and female) for eBaying purposes, bought for a pittance from our local curio shop. I've an adjustable dressmaker's dummy for sewing/mending/pimping up projects (£1 from a car boot sale) and an antique French mannequin (a cloth body stuffed with horsehair on a wooden stand) that I hauled out of a skip and she sits in the corner of my lounge resplendent in Great-Grandfather's Cheshire Rifleman's jacket from the Boer War. x

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    1. Vix--We've tried begging a mannequin from the local thrifts, but they aren't parting with any. Perhaps I should just keep looking and hope that I get lucky soon. That French mannequin sounds delicious. Have I ever met her on your blog?

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  11. I think you should draft your Mom to be a regular guest poster.

    We were looking at a wire coat-hanger kind of thing at Ikea the other day and I thought it would be nice to have something to put outfits on, but something that's curvy would be even better. Best of luck in your quest.

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    1. RoseAG--Perhaps we should draft both of our Moms to write on our blogs!

      I did recently purchase a female form for steaming purposes, but she's not full bodied enough to display some of the items I will have for sale.

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  12. I like DIY tales and the troubles therein. Hope your Mom starts a blog or returns here occasionally with more stories, I am guessing she has some good ones.

    Darla

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    1. Darla--I suspect that we all have DIY stories about projects that ran awry. I am sure that the comments here will encourage her to think about a blog.

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  13. Great, funny story! Your mother is a good story teller; I can picture the whole event and I'm laughing my butt off. Well, maybe not (considering the grandiosity of it) but I'm sure having a good belly laugh.

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    1. Lisa--I can only imagine that being encased in paper mache would make having a belly laugh hard to do. I always thought of my maternal grandmother as a "serious" person so this belly laughing story is a wonder to me.

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  14. What a great story! I didn't even know there was an option of making one's own form. What a process. And sorry, I have no idea where to buy a dress form. I would like to have a headless one for selling clothes on Etsy. They photograph better on a form...not just hanging on a hanger.

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    1. VintageFrench--Your experience with Etsy is precisely why I am looking for a form, although I have only done eBay.

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  15. Oh, Terri! Great post - both you and your mom are gifted storytellers. Best of luck with the dress form hunt!

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    1. Amber--I am sure I will let everyone know when I find the form and we can take turns coming up with a suitable name.

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  16. what an amazing story! i love hearing bits of family history like this! and yes, she should start a blog, or maybe you could just continue to guest post for you every once in a while. the coffee can comment made me laugh! i don't know a cheap place to buy one (other than the obvious ebay/craigslist) but i have seen tutorials on how to make your own!
    http://prudentbaby.com/2010/06/hot-mess/diy-duct-tape-dress-form-2/

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  17. I am so sending this link to my oldest daughter The NYC Costume Technician; she will love the story about creating the old dress form.

    Looking forward to getting the link to your eBay shop :) Your mannequin is very stylish, and I want whatever it is she has on, including the wig...lol.

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    1. Lynne--I'll bet your daughter might very well have had to make a form like this as a project for a class!

      I have made a couple of errors this first month on eBay. I want to be very comfortable with the process BEFORE I publish the link to the shop. I may have to send that gold dress to you--it is part of a "Gatsby" collection I have been putting together for months.

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  18. Okay, I see where your own writing talent begins. A great story, wonderfully told! Good luck searching out a mannequin.

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    1. Mater--Yes, I suspect that my mother does deserve some credit for my writing talent, although she has a livelier sense of humor than I do.

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  19. My mom had an adjustable form that was made of a sort of metal mesh. You opened it up the back, squished it around your body to fit, then opened it up again to step out of it. She was an awesome tailor, and used that form for years. I wonder what happened to it...

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    1. Katja--I have studied these metal mesh forms and that might be the most friendly style to purchase, size-wise. I could make it small or make it large in order to accommodate the size of the merchandise I need to picture for eBay. And, welcome to Rags!

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  20. thank you and your mother for that nice story, if she decides to have a blog, let me know, i will be her reader. i remember my grandmother (so she told us)has so many ideas how to simplify her life while she has not the possibilty to go in a shop and buy something. e.g. she was a passionate coffee drinker, in times when there was no coffee to buy, she made coffee from acrons and grain. i love to hear how our forefathers (and -mothers particularly) managed their life.

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    1. Sabine--I too love to hear stories about life in the past. In many ways, I know that our elders were more resourceful people. And yet, by comparison to our children, we are likely regarded as resourceful ourselves.

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  21. Terri--I am DYING here picturing your mom and grandmom making the dress form!!! Thank you so much for sharing this with us!!

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    1. Tamera--My mother can hardly tell the story today without laughing and I only wish that there was a photograph of my mother in her paper mache form.

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  22. What a great story! I love it that it's a happy relationship between a woman and her MIL; too often that is not a good one. There is something about sewing and fitting that does require a rather close relationship...even without a coffee can! What a hoot. She tells a good story and no doubt could manage a blog as well as many. I had a boyfriend at Ft Leonardwood in about 1972-3. I thought he was the love of my life for many years, but we broke up in '76. I don't know about finding an inexpensive dress for generally, but if you want one for yourself or one of your daughters, there are instructions on line for making one out of duct tape - sounds similar to your mom's experience. I've not attempted this myself, so I can't speek from experience. Have fun!

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    1. Shelley--You're right about the happy relationship. I know that my own relationships with my MILs were prickly at best. Certainly, fitting for a garment is always an intimate thing--I know I pay close attention when DH has been measured for his suits. I may have to check out the duct tape idea. Primarily this dress form is for displaying merchandise.

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  23. I have made the exact dress form for my best friend in Seattle, using duct tape and an old T-shirt. It was not fun - it was very hard work! Hint: When you are cutting it off your friend, try not to cut through her expensive bra!
    Are you sure you want to encourage your mother to write her own blog? What stories about you could she tell us? My mother would embarrass me beyond belief!
    Unless you want to spend $30 on Ebay for a flesh colored one, I would just get one of those clear half forms that Costco stuffs in all their bathing suits and throws away when you buy them. Nothing cheaper than free. If you want a free-standing one, it depends on how you plan on using your form - if it is for fitting or displaying your own clothes, then it won't have to adjust. If you want to display all sizes of clothes to sell on Ebay, you should get an adjustable one. Nothing makes a size 14 dress look worse than hanging it on a size 8 form. If you do get one of those brightly colored ones, just put something flesh colored on it first.
    I'll be on the lookout for one for you.

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    1. Beryl--How long did it take to make the dress form with t-shirt and duct tape? And it wasn't any fun? I note that my mother wasn't very specific about the cutting it off part...

      I am sure that my mother could tell a story or two about me. She once set me up for a blind date. He called and said he would be late. To calm my nerves, she made me a daquiri...and shortly after he arrived, I fell through the front hedge. Not a good first impression.

      I do have a half form and I have used it for future items on my ebay site, but I think I need the full form for dresses and several of the vintage coats I'll have for sale. It is primarily for display. I had hoped that I could pin the larger things--just as they do clothes on models.

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  24. Teri, the Kansas City craigslist has several dress forms listed as of today. Jo-ann's is having a web only sale http://www.joann.com/sewing-quilt/dressforms/brand_singer/ but I don't know what your budget is. Probably you could thrift or garage sale something less than that price, but you'll never find new for any cheaper.

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  25. Your mom should either start her own blog, or guest post at yours on a regular basis! This story was great!

    A couple of years ago I had a dress form like the one Judith, the Style Crone, has in her garden. I gave that away. I also had another one - a professional, adjustable one. It just didn't adjust well enough. My bust is larger than the dress form allows. Now my daughter has it. Recently she started sewing clothes at a club she goes to after school. Currently it displays a wedding dress she made for a show. It doesn't show her size, just holds the dress. It's still very decorative and practical.

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    1. Kaffesoester--I think I need to talk my mom into doing a post on the days of wearing girdles!

      A dress form is probably what I need--but the adjustable ones are fairly expensive. And just as you wrote, I'm afraid that the size won't adjust to the full range of sizes I may have to sell.

      I'll bet that your daughter gets a lot of satisfaction from sewing. I wish that my own skills were more advanced.

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  26. oh, yes, your mom would be a fabulous blogger!, and I'm also looking for a cheap mannequin-form-whatever, and I'm not lucky yet!
    besos

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    1. SenoraAllnut--the cheapest mannequins appear to be the "inflatable" type!

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  27. Your mom definitely should start a blog! I loved the story about the dress form. I don't know where to purchase one and my apartment is so small I literally have no place to put one, but I would love to own one some day and it will dressed with something fabulous, I tell you! Also, I wanted to tell you the Wallis bio I read and which is fairly kind to her and Edward VIII (and makes the current royal family look so very bad, particularly the Queen Mother!) is called "The Duchess of Windsor: The Uncommon Life of Wallis Simpson" by Greg King. I really enjoyed it. XO, Jill

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    1. Jill--I would think that a dress form would be a great help with the Chanel jacket! I'm going to track down that bio--thank you for the information.

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  28. Yes, I vote for your Mom to start a blog. That is a funny story.
    I got a dress form at a local antique mall. They are hard to find as many people want to use them for their own displays. I think the people I got mine from were selling out.

    I want to start selling some things on eBay so I will be anxious to hear your experiences.

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    1. Debbie--Perhaps once we get her settled in her new apartment, she'll start one. You're all set to start selling on ebay with the dress form. I've had some major bloopers this first month, but I will share my experiences once I fully have the hang of it. Serene has been a big help.

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  29. Thoroughly enjoyed this post. I was just talking to a designer find of mine last night who suggested making a form of me :) now I totally want to do it! Great story especially the coffee can part.

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    1. Krista--When I purchased my first mannequin, the guy at the antique store told me that it is possible to have mannequins molded in the shape of one's body. It's an expensive process I imagine, but it captured my husband and my imaginations.

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  30. Your mom probably has a lot of blog-worthy stories! I have been wanting a dress form forever, too! It just costs too much to ship to Hawaii! Sometimes you might find a store (via craigslist) that is getting rid of things, and I've even seen them at Ross.

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    1. oomph--I suspect all mothers have stories to tell! I think I do need to check Craigslist. That's a good idea.

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  31. Oh, the memories of making the exact same dress form for my mother - sticking on those weird strips while she stood there giggling and complaining; she even had the courage to have my father helping, along with three-year-old me! But I don't remember her ever using it - she still tried on all the clothes she made and had me mark them and pin them. Later, she also purchased a wire mesh form, and I don't think she ever used that one, either. The paper one eventually rotted, and I sold the wire one when we needed to sell her house many years later. Thank you so much for this post! Funny, I would absolutely love to have a dress form that was a realistic replica of my body - the dream continues . . .

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    1. Marsha--I'm very impressed that your mother had you help at age 3! I'm beginning to think that the wire mesh may actually be the way to go--as not all the clothing I'll put on it will be a size 8. Perhaps this one of my mother rotted in time too...she honestly doesn't know what became of it.

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  32. That is so funny - a few years back when I decided I wanted a dress form I look online at all those kinds of tutorials -- only they used a tee shirt and duct tape rather than a knit bodysuit and paper.

    In the end I went for the expensive form from Fabulous Fit.

    Chic on the Cheap

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    1. Lyddie--I'm going to check out Fabulous Fit! Thank you for that lead.

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  33. Thank you for your kind words; NO to the blog even though I am wealthy with banked memories. I promised myself in retirement I would read, read, read and write notes to my friends remembering kindnesses and encouragement; that takes my alloted writing time. I find thank you notes are a thing of the past . . . I'm trying to revive that lost art. Thanks again for your step into my past. It was fun remembering . . . Terri's Mom.

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    1. Mom--this post has been referenced on at least two other sites this weekend. You've been a big hit and I suspect that you could blog and write thank you notes as well as blog!

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  34. I've heard of the method Lyddiegal mentioned.
    Your mom should definitely start a blog. She could keep us entertained for hours with trips down memory lane.

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    1. Sheila--She commented just before you and I think we may have to do some more persuading to get her to start blogging.

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  35. I had no idea this was how dressforms were made! and yes your mom should start a blog :)

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  36. STUNNING! I think this is now my favorite outfit, cute day dresses (until your next one, I'm sure ;) Clothing is a wonderful medium in which women can nurture themselves.

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    1. Yes I agree with you. Well, i am trying wear good dresses.

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