Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Top Tier: Lisa at Dangerous Curves

During my recent blog vacation, I found myself thinking about the blogs I've seen come and go since I began blogging.  I miss Paula from Fashion over Fifty and Serene at the Elegant Bohemian and Reva from Rags to Roses.   I miss Christina from Second Skin Style.  And I found myself asking whatever happened to the GANG of academic style blogs I was reading when Rags first began.   I realize that people's interests change, but for every favorite that disappears a new one seems to come to my attention.
 
Last week Citizen Rosebud challenged us to introduce Top Tier blogs that may have been overlooked by the powers that be.  I could think of many I might suggest and as I made my commenting rounds I met a few new ones and came across recommendations for several I already read.  In some ways, "Top Tier" is a terribly loaded term as the dust-up at IFB demonstrated.  I know that I most value those blogs where I have some sense of a personal relationship with the blogger and I can see that the clothing is worn for daily life.

In THAT category, Lisa at Dangerous Curves best fits the bill.  When I stumbled across her blog, she was posting about the special set of concerns a ballroom dancer might have when dressing for competition.  As I read, I found myself remembering the basic belly dancing classes I took several years ago...and the discovery that often the costumes the dancers wore enhanced the effect of the dance.  Here Lisa is, in action with "Marcel." 

Dance is My Passion

As I continued to read Lisa's blog, I realized that she was a graduate student who both teaches and takes classes.  I connected with that too, remembering my own days in graduate school as a very heady time of learning and learning by teaching.  She's been off for the summer and has made generous comments on many of our blogs.  I know she lifted my spirits when I hit the wall with the Six Items Challenge.  And, she's been thrifting, with a special dancer's eye for the movement of a gown. 

She's introduced us to her family members-- her young photographer has ideas similar to my grandson's about a good pose.   So, while we share many interests, I encourage any of my followers to follow Lisa as she shares videos of her dance practice sessions, photos of her latest thrift store haul and shoe collections, and bemoans that portion of her body that seems to solicit out of the ordinary attention. 

School started for her this week and no doubt, she's as swamped as I feel with the new semester, but I encourage you to swamp her with comments.  You'll be glad you did.

48 comments:

  1. I enjoy Lisa's blog too - she's great! She does have the best luck thrifting beautiful dresses!

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    1. Sheila--Lisa thrifts entirely different things than I do, but I'll admit that she makes me want to look at the long gowns...if I only had a partner who like to dance more.

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  2. I miss Serene too; I think about her daily. But, somehow I've never heard of Lisa's blog. I'm heading over there right now!

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    1. Gracey--You'll enjoy Lisa's blog. Serene's blog was always uplifting and she left the best thoughtful and uplifting comments.

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  3. Thank you for this, Terri. I also enjoy Lisa's blog so much. And I miss Paula and Serene and Reva, too!

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    1. Patti--There's so many over 40 bloggers to consider. Enough that we could keep these recommendations rolling for WEEKS.

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  4. She's a new blogger to me. Admittedly I keep my blogroll kind of small so I can keep that personal relationship going. I've also taken on a ton this summer and have to completely switch gears in less than a week to start school.

    I agree with you about bloggers leaving. I've watched a number of blogs be abandoned... I think that's the major reason I turned my blog from being solely a fashion blog to a "whatever-I-want-to-talk-about" blog. Sometimes I get a ton of response for mixing it up, other times I miss the mark, but I have had some real surprises.

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    1. MeganMae--Yes, the pressure of school has started for me though I hope to maintain my regular commenting at least until the papers I have to grade begin to roll in. It's easier to keep a blog going when you talk about more than clothing!

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  5. In my two years of blogging, two-thirds of the blogs I followed have died. It's so sad and I miss them. I don't know why people abandon their blogs; to me, our blogs are a valuable face to the world.

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    1. Shybiker--I have noticed the ebb and flow of the blogosphere too. I've pondered the reasons for it...and strongly suspect that it may have something to do with the economy.

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  6. Wow, Terri! You blew my mind with your kind post. I had a moment of confusion when I saw my ballroom competition photo appear suddenly on bloglovin'!
    I am humbled and thrilled that you chose to 'share' me with your readers. I have a small but mighty contingent of blog followers and would love to meet more.
    Its wonderful to have an extended community of friends who share their love of dressing well, thrifting, tips, ideas and knowledge as well as sharing bits of their lives. I think its a reminder of how connected we all are. Thank you, my friend.

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    1. Lisa--I probably should have asked permission, but I had been pondering this for several days and knew I wanted to pick you. Your blog deserves more followers, although that could be a mixed blessing once school is underway. And I agree that community and connection is the biggest reason to continue blogging.

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    2. Terri.....it was a wonderful surprise!

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  7. I e-mailed Serene recently and she's doing well. I miss her too. My circle of friends is small but I do like to stay in touch. Speaking of change: where's the cucumber slice?!!! I'm really missing the cool, refreshing image.

    I'll be coming back to this post to take advantage of it's richness and to expand my blogging horizons. As always, it's a pleasure to be here!

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    1. Jean--Naturally, I've been lurking at Serene's eBay store, watching how it is done! I replaced the cucumber slice with this doll's head that was discovered inside one of the antique organs my husband has acquired this year. And thank you for your kind words.

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  8. Thanks for pointing out a terrific , new-to-me blog! I really miss Christina from second skin style too. I still like to go back and look at her outfits sometimes, still :) I hope she's doing OK.

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    1. Carolyn--Christina and I have exchanged some e-mails. The last I knew she is doing well.

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  9. What a great choice. I have been following Lisa's blog for a few months now and always look forward to a new post. A lovely lady.

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    1. Jane--I often have the sense that you and I are discovering new blogs about the same time. And you're right. There are many lovely bloggers--enough that I could make this a weekly or monthly feature!

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  10. It's so sad when favourite bloggers just stop posting. I miss Christina from Fashion's Most Wanted, I do speak to her in real life but her blog was always a joy! I shall pop over and visit Lisa, once I've caught up with the usual suspects. xxx

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    1. Vix--I've wondered about Christina at FMW too. It's cool that you at least get to see her in real life! Please give her my regards...not that that will convince her to take up blogging again.

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  11. We just recently "met" Lisa a couple of weeks ago and really enjoy reading her posts. Been following along since!

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    1. Heather--I'm glad to hear that you found Lisa on your own.

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  12. I read Lisa's blog. What a busy lady (as most of us are), and she has time to blog...amazing! I'll be visiting often!

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    1. Style Agent--I think Lisa has a devoted following. You're right that she has to be very busy, but I'm so glad we got to know her this summer.

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  13. I have recently discovered Lisa's blog too and what makes her even more special for me is the fact that my 9 year old son is about to start ballroom dance lessons (that he asked for, I kid you not), and I hope Lisa writes about ballroom regularly so I can start thinking about it more, on behalf of my boy (whose favorite dance is the swing)! Completely unrelated side note-thank you for pointing out Sept. 3 is Labor Day. Adrienne and I are switching the 'How I Wear My: Secondhand Treasure' to Sept. 5. I hope you will join us. How WILL you decide what to wear? Back on topic, I hope Paula will return and Serene I figured is just busy at the moment, working on her eBay shop! I just lost another blogging friend and I found it unexpected and upsetting. She just up and stopped, with no warning. Don't stop blogging Terri, we need you here! XO, Jill

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    1. Jill--I'm SO impressed that your son WANTS to take these lessons, swing in particular! I know that my own father was a latent tap dancer...

      You're right that selecting my favorite secondhand item might be a challenge...I plan to continue blogging for now, but I'm adjusting to the idea that there are unexpected events on the horizon.

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    2. Yes, Terri, don't stop blogging!

      Jill....I am more than happy to answer any question you have about ballroom! Bring them on! I will have a big ballroom post after the competition on August 31st... I would like to do a photo journal of the comp...from getting ready at home to arriving, checking in, buying a new dress, dances and dancers. We aren't allowed to video...but I can take plenty of pictures!

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  14. I miss those blogs too. I wish they would at least tell us that were no longer going to blog so I would not be worried about them!

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    1. Anonymous--In the case of three of these bloggers, I have a sense that they are safe, sound, and happy. Silence isn't always bad news.

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  15. Great choice, I like Lisa too! Considering academic style blogs I miss academichic and what would a nerd wear. I suppose both of them were pretty popular, but they still seemed down to earth. Luckily there are always new blogs popping up! As yours and others!

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    1. FourSeasons--Welcome to Rags! I know that AcademicChic and wwanw lasted for several years, as long as the writers were in graduate school. Perhaps they worry beyond that of their blogging interfering with full time teaching.

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  16. I'm really enjoying checking out the bloggers that people are suggesting after The Citizen Rosebud's challenge. There are so many great blogs out there, and I'm really craving the individuality that they have at the moment.

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    1. Stacey--I know, I am too. And I'm thinking that I need to do a feature like this once a month. I already have September's Top Tier blogger in mind.

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  17. This made me stop and think about why I read the blogs I do read, and I agree, it is the ones that I feel some connection to or relationship with, even if they are different than my own blog.

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    1. Meri--What started this whole flap was some "advice" from Independent Fashion Bloggers about how lesser bloggers could monetize. There didn't seem to be any recognition that not all bloggers are trying to make money...

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  18. Can you enlighten us and write a post on what Top Tier means? I have NO idea:).

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    1. Lisa--Well, naturally, it would depend on who is defining the term. Independent Fashion Bloggers seems to believe that we're all out to make money from our blogs and that those who don't are somehow "lesser." This has never been my goal.

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  19. I too miss the blogs that you mentioned and often wonder what triggered the decision to change course. Change seems to be the only constant!

    Thanks for the intro to Lisa! As a dance lover, I will visit again.

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    1. Judith--Do you do ballroom dancing?

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  20. I miss some of those blogs too, and yet when I wonder why they aren't posting, I have only to look at my life/decreased blog posting to know that changes in life, and good ones too, can alter one's blogging practices. Thanks for introducing a blog some of us may not know. :)

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    1. Grunge-queen--I like the changes I'm seeing at your blog, as you take us along settling into your new life in France.

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  21. Thanks Terri, for introducing a new (to me) blogger. And to Citizen Rosebud for suggesting the idea.

    I'd like to vote "top tier" off the island as an unnecessary, competitive, description that we don't need to voluntarily use.

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    1. Pao--Top Tier was coined by the gals at IFB who wrongly assumed that we're all blogging because we want to make big sponsor bucks and have agents. It is a tongue-in-cheek designation.

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  22. Wonderful that you've featured Dangerous Curves. Lisa is a recent discovery I love that she is a ballroom dancer and I enjoy her posts on dancing.

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    1. Veshoevius--Yes, there is a significant collection of dancers who are style blogging.

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  23. Hey Terri, it's me again. This time I wanted to let you know I've nominated you for a Liebster Award. Yes, it's true. To find out more, just visit my site at http://projectminima.blogspot.com/2012/08/not-just-another-award.html

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    1. Yikes I'm just now discovering this and will give attention to it on Monday!

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